I’m trying to raise two ladies, not to be better than others, but to make better choices than others I’ve witnessed.
Being a lady means to me self confidence, self realization, being independent, knowing how to advocate. I don’t want them to rely on anyone that will deceive them. I’m realistic enough to know they will get hurt, but I want them to know they pick who is allowed in their life.
Being a lady is a work in progress. But it does mean progress. I want them moving forward, improving themselves.
Most important, I want them to define what a lady us, I want to see what they use from my idea and see how they update it to suit their needs.